{"id":2346,"date":"2018-08-03T16:33:19","date_gmt":"2018-08-03T16:33:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/index.php\/2018\/08\/03\/social-grammar\/"},"modified":"2023-06-15T17:46:49","modified_gmt":"2023-06-15T17:46:49","slug":"social-grammar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/2018\/08\/03\/social-grammar\/","title":{"rendered":"“social grammar”"},"content":{"rendered":"

The theme for August and September is the EXTENDED family and how the norms are passed on or ignored<\/strong> by the next generation. This cultural phenomenon of teaching a type of BEHAVIORAL CODE or SOCIAL GRAMMAR is inevitable. To live together is to learn from each other. Mom\u2019s habits may become my habits. Grandfather’s values might become mine.<\/p>\n

In tighter cultures of the past, where the extended family lived together, the cultural norms were potent. What you heard from your father at the evening meal or campfire might also be heard in the fields or on the hunt by your uncle. The elders taught SOCIAL GRAMMAR or how to behave in the family, in public, and in the workplace.<\/strong> This grammar displayed the family\u2019s values or the community\u2019s values.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s an example of SOCIAL GRAMMAR. <\/strong><\/p>\n

When I lived in Mongolia, one such norm was to entertain your drop-in guests with honor and with TIME. There was no rushing the spontaneous visitor in those days. No matter that others waited for the host or hostess. Appointments were put aside, plans dropped, and friends waited.<\/p>\n

The host and hostess would serve customary milk tea from their thermos, and set out a bowl of doughnut-type pastry and a bowl of candy or bread with jam. In extreme cases, the host and hostess –after about 45 minutes –might tell the guest of their plans and ask them to join them on the road, This meant walking to the bus stop with them or seeing them off on their way.<\/p>\n

The guest should be obliging and reach for their coat and hat and walk the way with them. Thus, the spontaneous visit never turned into a full meal of freshly made noodles in beef or lamb soup.<\/p>\n

To watch your parents\u2019 interaction with others, was to TEACH YOU how to do the same.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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The theme for August and September is the EXTENDED family and how the norms are passed on or ignored by the next generation. This cultural phenomenon of teaching a type of BEHAVIORAL CODE or SOCIAL GRAMMAR is inevitable. To live together is to learn from each other. Mom\u2019s habits may become my habits. Grandfather’s values […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2179,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[41,47,8,162],"tags":[55,64,249,285,347,128,307,308],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2346"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2346"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2346\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2865,"href":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2346\/revisions\/2865"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2179"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2346"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2346"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/worldsobright.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2346"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}